Standstill

I am at a complete standstill with Zum. Buddy’s lessons are forgotten. Zum will not obey me or do anything I ask him to do. He just wants to run me down, which he did. I sprained my right wrist, reinjured my bruised hip and cut up my right arm. I am looking for another trainer, preferably a woman whose weight won’t hurt Zum’s back. Another reason I need a woman trainer is so that Zum learns to be handled by a woman.